Turning a Foe to an Ally

Turning a Foe into an Ally

Q:  I just “parachuted” into a senior position of a subsidiary company.   What this means is that I did not have to go through the mill but just landed in this high poistion on top of many others. While this is a compliment that I have the trust and confidence of the management, there are several downsides to it. Read more

Negotiating Positively

Question: I am the type of person that does not feel comfortable confronting people, especially when it comes to facing them during meetings to work out any kind of deals – whether it is about a pay rise, better business terms and/or staff disciplinary issues.
Somehow deep in me, I do not like the process of bargaining where, one side is trying to get the better of the other. Read more

6th Annual General Meeting

NOTICE OF 6th ANNUAL GENERAL MEETING NOTICE IS HEREBY GIVEN that the 6th Annual General Meeting of the Malaysian Association of Certified Coaches (MACC) will be held as follows :

Date:                14 March 2015 (Sat)
Time:               0930 – 1130 hours
Venue:             Level 11, Wisma HELP, Jalan Dungun, Bukit Damansara, Kuala Lumpur
Dress Code:     Smart Casual
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Are you Genuine or Full of Yourself?

Dr. Michael Heah

Question: There is a battle going on in my mind as to whether living in righteousness to speak the truth in all instances is better than compromising my values and principles to tell half-truths to protect people’s interests.

I ask this because it appears that my righteousness is not paying off. People are calling me all sorts of names, from being uncooperative to self-centered, selfish, and rigid.

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Information that Leads to Transformation


We cannot teach people anything; we can only help them discover within themselves.” ~ Galileo Galilei

That is a burden in my heart to share principles that I believe would make a profound impact to people’s lives. Principles that changed my life, how I see and experience life and everything. But sharing deep insights is easy, but not easily received the same way by others. As the saying goes, “Some things can only be caught, not taught.” Read more

Own Your Thoughts or You Will Be Owned By Others


Positive thoughts fuel your happiness. Negative thoughts fuel your sadness.

Our feelings changes throughout the day – happy or sad/anger based on how we manage our thoughts that directly manages our “passion”, directly shown in our “actions” – that produces the “outcome”. It’s important to quickly identify the type of thoughts you are having – why you are having it – and what is causing it. The speed of identifying your thoughts and changing it will give you more control of your self – to ensure happiness and fulfilment. Read more

Build Up The Full Power In Yourself


Have you ever met a person who was in Full Power, in whole self-control of her/himself?

You have certainly noticed as this person shones, irradiates even, drew the attention, hypnotizes and consequently tempts us to believe her/him, to follow her(it) even? Read more

You Are The Leader of Your Own Life


Yes, you heard it right. Believe it or not, everyone is a leader. You are the leader of your own life and it is a matter of choice.

You wake up one morning and realize there is no toothpaste left. You check with your wife and she says: “Sorry honey, no more left!” What will you do? Well, you may probably get angry and say: “Why didn’t you stock it up?” and there you go, that’s how couples fight over the smallest things. Or probably you will just move on, rinse your mouth and get to work ignoring how your mouth may stink for the day. You probably will also think that your wife will get it replenished later today and there is no worry for it tomorrow. What would happen if she didn’t? Read more

The Compassionate Coach: From Empathy to Compassion (Part 1 of 2)


Empathy means: “putting yourself in the other person’s shoes” or “seeing things through someone else’s eyes.” As a coach, undoubtedly, empathy helps us to build a deep, trustful and safe connection with our coachee. By sharpening our ‘people acumen’, it also allows us to understand and be attuned to others’ feeling and thinking.

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Want to Transform?


Want to transform?….  Self develop yourself

Writing is something, I am beginning to fall in love with. I write a monthly column on child health issues in a community paper. 

Now, I am here, I am a beginner in writing on non medical articles but friends as we know ” a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step” 

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